Help Me: Why Does My Boyfriend Have More Girl Friends than Guy Friends?
admin October 2nd, 2007
Hi Lauren and Kristel. My name is Christie and I’m one of your readers in this fabulous blog. I hope you’re time doesn’t get wasted in listening to my problem. I just badly need some advice. That’s all.
I have a boyfriend of two years and we get along pretty well. I am just confused if he truly loves me or he’s just reciprocating my love. Tell me if I’m just jealous or if I have basis for what I’ve been feeling for him. I don’t get why he’s got more girl friends that boy friends. I know he’s friendly (and he tells his friends he has a gf), but, is it perfectly fine if he communicates with them every single day? I mean, he PMs/texts them more than his male buddies. One time, I found out he was texting with a girl friend while he was with me, but the texts were mushy and all that. I got jealous, alright, but kept silent.
That same night, he called the girl for no reason but to say hello. When I found out about it, I was fuming mad I almost broke up with him. Another time I found out he’d text me good night and yet, he’d still text with girl friends up to ungodly hours. I confronted him outright and told him how I felt. He said sorry and promised he won’t do it again. I forgave him.
Now, he’s still into it. He’s so friendly to his girl friends that I always get irirrated. What should I do? I’m not happy with the way things are going between us, especially him being so insensitive to my feelings. Do you have any suggestions on how I could get even? Just so he’d realize that he’s doing something undesirable to me.
I’m really having a hard time right now.
